When People Put You Down

 Remind yourself that there would always be people around you who could not do anything in their lives but are too good in criticizing others and making others feel bad, That is their  ''hobby''. Do not let these people drive you crazy. Sincerely evaluate their criticism, if there is anything good in it, take it, otherwise move on.

Remind yourself that you win when you refuse to fight petty type of people. If you react, you cut yourself to their size.

Remind yourself that winners always confront such people.

They continue telling every winner, why something would not work or why they were ''not good''. Almighty God has given you two ears, use them, listen it from one ear, and let it escape from the other.

                      ........let them pardon and overlook.

                   Love ye not that Allah should forgive

                   you And Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

Never respond and react to their dirty and negative comments. Say thanks and move on..

Remind yourself that better you become, more criticism you will encounter. Become immune or negative criticism. Let me share with you a personal experience. Almost all of my life achievements and happy moments sprouted out of those moments  when someone made me feel very low...

It is this time, When you refuse to get even with others, while fearing God that whatever you ask of Him, He gives it to you...

Remind yourself that these type of people are psychologically ill. Feel sorry for them instead of feeling sorry for yourself..

    Be quick in the race for forgiveness

  from your Lord, and for a garden

whose width is that (of the whole)of

the heavens and of the earth,

prepared for the righteous.