When New Boss is Difficult or the Promotion is Denied

It is for you to choose whether you continue at this job or not. But there are many people in this world who are as or maybe even more difficult than your boss. Moreover, what is the guarantee that your new boss will be better? With the power of positive living, you can get out of this difficult situation..

If you are thinking of quitting, no one is powerful enough to decide for you. How could you then let your boss decide your fate? if you leave, it should be a personal choice, not a forced decision.

Sincerely look inside you and find out what it is in you that is causing boss's annoyance. If you  sincerely do, you will find out.

Find out if your boss is the only one with whom you are having difficulties to get along. Maybe there are many other people you have lost do to some undesirable habits in you.

Ask the boss for a personal appointment. Tell him you are interested in developing your self and learning form his experience. Everyone needs acceptance, approval and appreciation. If you do that (or continue doing it), the boss's attitude will change. Listen to him, attentively. Do not be defensive, even if you do not agree with him. Check out with him as to what behavioral changes or performance improvement would he like to see  in you. Double check with him to ensure that you know exactly what he means. write it down with his permission. Thank him for his time and ensure him that you would do utmost to act upon his advice.

Check with other people, including family, spouse, friends, colleagues, and see if others also notice the same undesirable behavior in you