When Arguments Seems to start

 No matter how difficult or negative the other person is, an argument will never take place, if you refuse to differ. Remember the old saying that  it takes two to clap. You are in control of your life; do not let others decide it for you.

T ell yourself  that no one is powerful enough to drive you.  Remember you make others powerful by vesting power unto others.

Resist the temptation to argue back by asking yourself, ''Is this really important enough to argue about?''.

Remind yourself that you never gain anything from an argument but you always lose something.

Ask yourself, ''Will this argument help me in getting what i want to get ,right now''.

Keep on doing, ignoring taking it easy, apologizing if you must what you want other person to do. Your attitude on how well you handle other's attempt to start arguing will soon transfer into the other person. I f you react aggressively, the other person will become more aggressive. If you reacted with patience, smile, coolness other's person's aggression will fizzle out.

  ''Let every one of you ask of his Lord

 all that he wants''..........