3 Positive Tips When You Feel Lonely
In one way, everyone is lonely. We come alone and leave this planet alone. On the other hand, no one is lonely as such. You have so many people around you. If you still feel lonely, It is a feeling, not necessarily a reality. You are powerful enough to make your own choices about your own life.
You do not have to have friends. However if you need friends, you can make as many friends as you want to.
Nothing is free. Even friendship is not free. It can cost you your time, resources.
The world is full of good people. Good people will always be in majority, no how it seems to us.
No one is complete and you must be willing to accept people as they are, the way you expect others to accept you, is the way you are.
Your eyes shows you what you would like to see. The world is a mirror in which you see your image. If you like to see beauty and love, you will. Your attitude will get across to the other person. If you are critical, other people will also become critical.
Love yourself. Build yourself up. Develop high self- esteem. It is impossible to feel friendly to other people if you are not caring yourself.
Learn and Practice a three magical formula to build Friendship:
Acceptance:
Accept people as they are. Allow them to be themselves. Don't insist on anyone being perfect before you can like him/her.
Approval:
Look for something to approve in the other person. It may be something small or insignificant but let the other person know you approve that and the number of things you can sincerely approve of will begin to grow. Every human being is hungry for approval and wants to feel important. Satisfy the other person's hunger for approval and he/she automatically will become friendly.
Appreciation:
To Appreciate means to rise in value, as opposed to depreciate, which means to lower in value. Let other people know that you value them. Treat other people as if they are valuable to you. Do not underestimate ''small courtesies''. It is by such small things that we acknowledge the importance of the other person. Use ''Happy Talk''. Remember: no body like a prophet of doom. Keep your troubles to yourself. Eliminate kidding, teasing, and sarcasm from your conversation.
