How Destiny is Made

A married couple came for coaching. The couple was going through a very tough phase of their life. They had been quarreling with each other for a year. I asked them if any extraordinary event occurred sometime before they fell out. They took quite sometime to recollect the incident. The woman said that about two months before their first major fight they attended a social gathering. There was a palmist among the guests. He told her husband he had a second marriage line in his hand. They would often have squabbles after that.

I wanted to know more about it from the man. A few days later, I called and asked him what he had been thinking about since he met the palmist. He said he had been thinking about his second marriage and how it would affect his life:

 He admitted that one of his colleague remarried with a young office girl three years ago and since then he had been thinking about as to how it seemed to be married to a young girl.

He admitted that although nothing had changed in his wife, he was less tolerant to her.

He admitted that he had been thinking about the woman he would marry

He admitted that he had shared his feeling with many friends

He admitted that in one year he had imagined marrying at least five women, three of his office colleague and two others

He admitted that he had made plans as to how he would handle his two children if he remarried

                                The man was about to become a victim of his thoughts. He was making it happen. As he was thinking more and more about it, his mind was making it easier for him to rationalize that the first wife was not good. within a few months , his relationship became better. His second marriage line got dimmer and in less than a year, it disappeared. It is the third year now and the couple is living together, happily.